Let's Talk – Pressures Of Being A Reader/Blogger

Hey lovely readers! So today I want to talk to you all about some of the pressures we face as readers/bloggers. This is a post I wrote back in February. But it’s important enough that I wanted to share it again.

I haven’t been blogging for long, it’s been about 7 months now. And yet I have already stressed myself out about not reading enough books to review. I have seen this happen to other bloggers, especially on Twitter. People apologizing for not posting anything for a few days or for posting late or for not posting on their regular days. So I really wanted to take some time to put my thoughts and feelings out there for all of you to read, for two main reasons. First, because it helps to say what I’m feeling even if no one reads it and two because I want others who feel this way to know that they are not alone.


 I have been a big reader my whole life, so much so that everyone who knows me even a little knows how much I love books. Probably because I’m always talking about them! But my point here is that I am known for reading, which often times means that’s all people think that I do. My family expects that I have read all of the big and famous books and that I must love them all. Well guess what? I’ve never read Moby Dick, I refuse to read War and Peace, I really hate To Kill a Mockingbird , and Twilight is one of my all time favorite books. Being a reader does not me you are a genius, being a reader doesn’t mean you have to read the “classics”, though I personally love to read them. And reading certain types of books does not make you a “bad” reader.

Often times I feel pressure from friends, family, and fellow bloggers alike to read more books. I feel like I have to post more reviews, and do less tags. I feel like I have to love the same books that other avid readers do and hate the same ones that they do.

 Some examples? I really really do not like The Book Thief, I do not think it’s a great or amazing book and I do not get the hype. And I actually don’t hate the Fifty Shades series. It’s no great literary work, but I don’t hate it, yup I actually said that. But it was so hard to admit here, because I know people will read those opinions and instantly judge me. And there is that pressure again, the pressure to read the “right” kinds of books and have the opinion that goes with the status quo.


Sometimes I feel as if I need to jump on the bandwagon so to speak and if I don’t I cannot be apart of the conversation. I feel like I’m missing out on some big secret that no one wants to share. But I and you are more than just a reader. We like and do other things, books are a huge part of my life, but they are not my whole life.

It’s okay to stop reading for awhile. It’s okay to want to read e-books and not physical books. It’s alright if you want to read sappy, sex filled, romance novels. Or maybe you just read comics or manga. Or perhaps you only like biographies. My point is that everyone is different and it’s okay to like and not like certain types of books. The same goes for those of us who blog, whether we blog about books, life, travel, clothes, makeup, pop culture, movies, or tv shows it does not matter. There is no “correct” way to blog or a “right” topic to blog about. But there is a pressure as a blogger or even a youtuber to post consistently and to post content that their readers and watchers will find interesting.

 But you know I believe that our work has value no matter how many people see it or comment on it. I believe we all matter and that each of our opinions matter, even if no one says so. It’s an unfortunate part of life, pressure. And it sucks that we all feel it from time to time, even when we’re doing something we love. I think we often forget why we started our blogs or YouTube channels in the first place, because we wanted to share our passions with the world. So maybe in the future we can all try to remember that and go forward with clearer heads and peaceful hearts. Much love to you all ❤ And a special shout out to the bloggers that have helped and inspired me along my journey.

Thanks for reading guys! Talk to you soon! ❤ Adrianna


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My name is Adrianna. I’m a 27 year old wife, mommy, book lover, and librarian. I have a deep love for books and an unhealthy obsession with iced tea! I can quote almost any Disney movie, Belle is my favorite Disney princess, and I live for Harry Potter! I enjoy reading New Adult Romance above anything else. I have one beautiful baby boy named Jace and 5 cats and 1 dog who are basically my world (along with hubby of course)! And when I’m not reading I enjoy writing, puzzling, trivia, and long walks with the hubs, baby boy, and dog! Thank you for visiting and I hope you enjoy! ❤ Adrianna

12 thoughts on “Let's Talk – Pressures Of Being A Reader/Blogger

  1. *CLAPS FURIOUSLY* Well said. I stopped reading around 7th grade because teachers and other readers put in my head that I wasn’t a “real reader” because I didn’t read the right books. I loved fantasy. And I tended to read well below my grade level. When I was a teenager in the mid nineties (Dang, I’m old lol,) I still wanted to read R.L Stine, Roald Dahl, and Bruce Coville. This wasn’t good enough, according to them. I tried reading classics, but hated them. Don’t get me started on The Great Gatsby… It wasn’t until I was 33 years old that I realized how full of crap those people were. Now I read and write what I want, and have a richer, happier life because of it. I wish I had overcome this long ago, but better late than never! 😀


    1. Haha I’m glad you liked it! 🙂 It’s so important to read what’s enjoyable to you and not just what everyone says is enjoyable. I love classics, but I’ve never liked how they’re forced on everyone. And besides what is a classic really? I’m glad you’re reading and writing what you want. I really love your posts, so it seems to be going just fine! 🙂


      1. Aww, thanks!

        Yes! And I’d take it one step further. Forcing classics while not encouraging the young person’s own taste or desire to explore other genres. Regardless of how “trite” or “un-educational” the teacher might think it is. Reading is reading is reading. Read all the things!


  2. Awesome post, I know when I first started I got stressed outl. This is not my job or my livelihood, this is my hobby, if it is stressing me out I am not doing something wrong. Since realizing this I have readjusted and I wish I had done it sooner. I am less worried about “keeping up with the Jones’s”.


  3. Good points! I see some who read tens of books each month and crank our review after review. That’s all well and good for them but it’s not who I am as a writer or book reviewer. Not only am I monumentally busy with other aspects of life, as you mentioned, but I also like to take my time with a good book and also when I am writing a review. I am very intentional and reflective about the book reviews I write, perhaps because it’s part of what I do as my day job also, or maybe it’s just my personality. But we can’t let the numbers be the thing we look to as success. I think it’s quality over quantity for sure! Hope you have a great week!


  4. Yes, this is exactly how I feel! Especially around YA book Twitter, it feels like if you don’t read new releases as soon as they come out, you’re already out of the loop. Like, I read a few here or there, but for the most part, I’m just reading what sounds interesting to me… Which is mostly the books that have been on my bookshelves for years but I have yet to touch, lol.

    And sometimes I feel like the stuff I do write about isn’t “popular” enough for people to like, which is silly because I started this blog to write about books that I enjoy. Not because I want a huge following or to be popular (I mean, that would be a perk, though 😂).

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  5. I think there is this definitely pressure to “read the right book”. It can be highly destructive as instead of refining your tastes, developing your own analysis and opinions and exploring what you find meaningful in the books that you read you end up regurgitating talking points, feeling like a pseudo-intellectual and removing enjoyment from the reading process itself. While I do think that reading with a critical eye is important, enjoyment of the reading process itself is also the whole point of why we read in the first place. I don’t think its healthy to read based off of popular or based on critical reception of a book but at the same time if you completely ignore books that get buzz just to avoid the mainstream you could also potentially miss out on something you might enjoy. I would love to be more active in the blogging community as I took a hiatus and came to back to find that to my horror the community pool has disappeared. Hope my comment was helpful. It would be cool if you could stop by my blog as well :).



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